Emotional Transactions of Human Connection and The Power Exchange

Your own Choice = Self-Authority

Your Respecting (Thoughtfulness and the Preserving) the Choice of Others = Respecting Someone’s Self-Authority

Self-Authority = Choice AKA = Consent

Hard: 

1. Only seeing the Components
2. Are NOT in the Learning Mindset
3. Learning Out of Order

Easy: 

1. You see the big picture
2. You are in the Learning Mindset
3. Learning in Order

Choice Frees you and gives the Other Control, restoring Balance.

You have integrated components that are not part of your system = MENTAL ILLNESS