Stepping Stone #5 : When the “I” is in “They” and “They” is in “I” – When Integration Goes Wrong

When Integration goes wrong, we end up integrating other PEOPLE into our stories and into our “I.” We have to UN-Integrate to fix this.


But Un-Integration can feel like a losing of the Self. And it is! But The Self has been defined by something that is not YOU. You can Un-Integrate the Foreign “They” for the “I” or you can grow your “I” first.



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