The Characteristics of The Perspective In Groups of 3 :
- 0%-100%-50% (Indulgence to EXTREME OPPOSITE INDULGENCE to Balance)
- COMPLETE Desire and UN-APPRECIATION OF… UNTIL you learn the Value of…
- You learn the Value of X “I’m sick of… I want X” – Appreciation of X
- And then you understand the value of BOTH and BALANCE… – INTEGRATION OCCURS
The Characteristics of The Perspective In Groups of 3 :
- 0%-100%-50% – “I DESIRE X” The Identity WANTS… / Anger and Frustration
- POINT OF CHANGE… You make the CHOICE to CHANGE… AND YOU DO. (THIS is the Perspective Shift) – Example 7th Perspective VALUES SILENCE
- RELIEF – > Identity embraces the SMORGASBORD – Celebration where you INDULGE
- BORED with One-Sidedness…
- Until you See the Value of the Other side / Lack of Variety – EXAMPLE – Within the 7th Perspective you suddenly understand the VALUE of WORD and SPEAKING WITH PURPOSE.
- “I WANT to speak with PURPOSE” – The wanting IS the SHIFTING…
- You SHIFT your Priority when you say, “I understand the Value of X.”
- A Moral Lesson to Be Learned – Words are IMPORTANT and they have VALUE and we MUST BE CAREFUL WITH OUR WORDS – Words are PRECIOUS AND WE TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED.
- A New Emotion to be learned – Appreciation for EFFECTIVE Communication
This shifts your values and your priorities.
What you value and Prioritize tells me 2 things : 1 – How you were abused, when you were abused, which perspective abused you, how you tried to cope with that abuse, which perspectives you are refusing to learn, which perspectives you have not learned, and which perspectives you think are dangerous.
Based on the LANGUAGE they use, I can tell which perspectives are their abusers, how they were abused, how much the victim is capable of healing.
Logical Deduction and information.
100% accurate.
Linguistics, Communication, Learning, Teaching, Psychology, Metaphysics, Sociology, Triadic Healing, Logic (Deductive Reasoning) – 12th Perspective – Omniscient POV
Every Perspective Neglects Something – (Example : 6th Perspective NEGLECT the SELF-VOICE)
Every Perspective LEARNS to appreciate SOMETHING – (Example : 7th Perspective learns to APPRECIATE HEALTHY WORD USE – Words… are PRECIOUS)
As an Example : You use the 3rd Ethical Perspective
With Pride in Themselves
“I don’t need anyone else. I can do it on my own.”
Try. Do.
Fail or you get stuck…
“Realize the VALUE and IMPORTANCE of receiving help from others.”
But YOU have to FIRST realize, accept, and ACKNOWLEDGE YOU VULNERABILITY.
You vs. YOUR VULNERABILITY.
EXAMPLE : PROCESS WITH ABUSE
- 0%-100%-50% – “I DESIRE X” The Identity WANTS… BECOMES and AVOIDANT with associated TRAUMA AND “Desire” is BANNED
- POINT OF CHANGE… You make the CHOICE to CHANGE… STOPS – YOU HAVE NO POWER… YOU are A Victim / You “can’t” save yourself. YOU HAVE NO AUTHORITY.
- RELIEF – > Identity embraces the SMORGASBORD – Celebration where you INDULGE – BECOMES ANXIETY / TRAPPED… Welcome to ADDICTION – Christianity caused your Alcoholism because you lack Autonomy and Authority
- BORED with One-Sidedness… YUP… BUT… We lack the elements for change, which are “Autonomy and Authority.” – Bored = Surplus of unspent Energy. Stagnant Energy.
- Until you See the Value of the Other side / Lack of Variety – BECOMES PREJUDICE – So you NUTURE your closed mind due to FEAR of the UNKNOWN (Trapping you further)… Increasing ANXIETY – Fear of the “Unknown” is actually fear of THE UNDEFINED SELF because you lack autonomy and authority.
- NULL AND VOID DUE TO ABUSE – “I WANT to speak with PURPOSE” – The wanting IS the SHIFTING… – THERE IS NO “WANT” There is no DESIRE because there is no IDENTITY. From this point on, there is no evolutionary GROWTH. YOU ARE STUNTED. WHERE you are stunted, tells me HOW OLD YOU WERE WHEN YOU WERE FIRST ABUSED.
- NULL AND VOID DUE TO ABUSE – You SHIFT your Priority when you say, “I understand the Value of X.”
- NULL AND VOID DUE TO ABUSE – A Moral Lesson to Be Learned – Words are IMPORTANT and they have VALUE and we MUST BE CAREFUL WITH OUR WORDS – Words are PRECIOUS AND WE TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED.
- NULL AND VOID DUE TO ABUSE – A New Emotion to be learned – Appreciation for EFFECTIVE Communication
IF THE MOTHER is most important and they have an addiction – They were abused at the 1st Perspective
IF the Tradition/Religion/Culture/Family/Gang is most important and they are TERRIFIED of “disobedience” and “consequence” – they were abused at the 2nd Perspective
IF they rely on NO ONE and they are loners, and their own Vulnerability is DANGEROUS – They were abused the 3rd Perspective
They CLING to the 4th Perspective for control, security, order, and safety… which reinforces their DEPENDENCE… – This fortifies the EGO of the CLOSE MINDED, 4TH Perspective who projects their need to control onto others. The 4th Perspective is the “Savior,” which makes the 4th Perspective feel VALUED = Because the 4th Perspective is projecting their own Narcissist insecurities, they create words like “crazy,” “arrogance,” “stupid,” “useless,” Every 4F’s Word that exists in our language was composed and created by an insecure, 4th Perspective Narcissist seeking to project their own insecurities onto others because of the “Reflection” Law in Optic Physics, which also governs the Human Learning Center of the brain in Psychology – Mimic/Mirror/Repetition Response.
And the 4th Perspective makes the laws and Enforces them.
THE SOLUTION –
Remember the 3 Requirements of Abusers:
- 1 – Cooperation – Stop Cooperating
- No more Silence
- Autonomy
- Authority
- Prioritize YOU and YOUR Self and YOUR value
- 2 – Your Availability
- BOUNDARY UP
- DENY THEM ACCESS
- See my Circle of Trust
- 3 – Your IGNORANCE
- Watch my Morning Show, Philosophical Coffee
OBSTACLES that KEEP YOU ABUSED :
- You defend your ABUSER
- Your LOYALTY and FAITHFULNESS )this is called Stockholm Syndrome) to your RELIGION, TRADITIONS, CULTURES, COUNTRY, and Family
- You Prioritize YOUR ABUSER’S EMOTIONS MORE THAN your MENTAL HEALTH, Safety, Autonomy, Authority, and YOUR Opinion
- You do not address YOUR FEAR… To address your fear, YOU MUST SAVE YOURSELF AND YOU MUST DEFINE THE PAST-SELF, DEFINED AND KNOW YOUR PRESENT SELF, YOU MUST KNOW YOUR FUTURE SELF.
Security is KNOWING who you WILL BE
Understanding is KNOWING who you WERE in RELATIVITY TO YOUR ETHICAL TRUTH instead of DEFINING your Self on the WORDS, EMOTIONS, TRUTHS, and NAMES of your Abusers.
AUTHORITY is KNOWING WHAT YOU CAN DO NOW, THAT YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF NOW AND CLAIM YOUR POWER OF CHOICE TO CHANGE
Please, let my words to you be the example you need to realize just how important and valuable and POWERFUL purposeful words and purposeful communication REALLY IS.
Always Communicate with PURPOSE.
Words are OUR STORY. Strung together back to back to pain the images that defines our reality.
And we are STORY BEINGS whose SANITY depends upon our stories.